Attitude is important. Your attitude and demeanor reveal where it is you would feel most comfortable.
Matthew 8: 11 And I say unto you, That many shall come from the east and west, and shall sit down with Abraham, and Isaac, and Jacob, in the kingdom of heaven. 12 But the children of the kingdom shall be cast out into outer darkness: there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
There will be a lot of weeping in the cast-out place.
Matthew 13: 41 The Son of man shall send forth his angels, and they shall gather out of his kingdom all things that offend, and them which do iniquity; 42 And shall cast them into a furnace of fire: there shall be wailing and gnashing of teeth.
There will be a lot of wailing in the furnace of fire.
Matthew 25: 30 And cast ye the unprofitable servant into outer darkness: there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Don’t be a weeping, wailing, gnasher of teeth. It is a hellish attitude. You might find outer darkness here on earth.
Revelation 21: 4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.
There will be no weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth where we want to go. We need to show God with our attitude that we are comfortable with love, joy, and peace. And, maybe someone will see your joy and find their way out of hell.